by Philip Patton on 24/02/13 at 11:52 am
Have you bumped into a girl at a place where you frequent? It might be at work, in a coffee bar or a local library and you realized you were attracted to her and intended to get her to notice your presence or existence. But you didn’t want to use a cheesy pick-up line, what if you were refused? Would you feel embarrassed? In this situation, you should try some other ways to charm her pants off so that you enter a natural notice situation.
Here are some tips teaching you how to achieve this goal. The girl, who you frequently meet, might not ever know of your existence.
1. Be the centre of her attention
Being a single person frequenting a place, it is very hard to catch her attention. You can join a group and frequent the same or even a different place. Your funny talking behaviours and attractive voice will draw her attention to notice your presence. If you want to use this method to catch her eyes, you should avoid pretending. Only your honest and sincere behaviour will touch her heart to notice your existence, otherwise she will think you just stand out like a clown.
2. Well dressed
Well-dressed doesn’t mean you need to wear a well-known brand like Louis Vuitton to accentuate your values. Instead, colourful, stylish and well-matched polo shirt and jeans with a pair of sneakers are not only eye catching but also simple. The girl will feel you are a fashionable and energized man. There is a thin line between you looking good and you looking for attention. Your potential goal is to attract her attention to notice you. So the key factor will play an essential role. Over dressing will only result in a disgusting feeling from her.
3. Make eye contact
Make eye contact with her now and then, gaze at her fixedly to get her attention whenever you get a window of opportunity. Your dove-eyed expression will convey a feeling of her being special to you. Keep in mind not to stare at the girl for too long, otherwise she will think you are a creepy guy. Exchanging a brief glance always hints to the girl that you are attracted to her.
4. Be courageous and brave
Your shyness will only limit your chance to get her to notice you. You can organize an outing such as Karaoke or bowling, at those places, the atmosphere is relaxing. Also, you invite a friend who is her friend. You go out in a group. In this situation, you can easily find a chance of talking to her. And you won’t feel awkward to approach her.
5. Be confident
No matter where you are, your voice and talking behaviours are always full of confidence and courage, she will think you are positive and convincing. At least in those public places where both of you frequent, she has a convincing idea about you.
6. Be fun and passionate
When you have a chance to go on an outing together, you should always be fun and full of passion. You can pick an interesting topic to talk about in a funny way with your passion, and she will eventually notice you and is more willing to participate in your conversation.
Overall, those are just some useful and handy tips. In a real situation, you might find them different from what you learned. At least you need to be brave and encouraging, and a good guy never finds it hard to find his anticipated girl.