by Philip Patton on 04/02/13 at 11:09 am
When you were a college student, you must have had several girls chasing you; when you moved to the university, the amount of girls chasing you declined. Right now, all of them have disappeared and you are not pre-selected by any women; although you were noticed by some. Like the author Joshua Pellicer of The Tao of Badass, pre-selection is the key to getting attention from a woman.
Have you ever thought of what is happening to you? Are you lacking the social ability to get yourself into social situations? You might have tried peacocking with dazzling clothes and perfumes so as to make yourself stand out; however the jury still seems to be out. What is the definition of “attraction” in the dictionary? – Appealing to emotions and senses by stimulating interest and creating admiration by one’s charm.
In reality, the definition of “attraction” is something that stems from who you are. Have you found that you are only attracted to a certain type of woman although every woman is different from a personality perspective? Let us go back to our topic – how to attract a woman. There are several basic tips which you can follow to attract attention from a woman.
Self – confidence
No woman likes a weak and timid man. Your self- confidence and being willing to take the lead personality will win her over to you, but not all men were born with this personality. However, you still have other good points in yourself; display them to your desired girl.
A sense of humour
Every woman likes to get herself involved in a relaxing, charming and cheerful conversation. Do you have a sense of humour to make your beloved woman smile and laugh? You can talk about many different topics but are you able to incorporate some of your own opinions in with your humour and convince the woman who you are dating to accept them?
A good listener
Do you think you are a good listener? Women like to talk about their problems to a close friend. Do you have the patience to listen to her? You might not need to answer her questions or help her find a solution; at least you listen to her. Your patience will amaze her and cause her to get closer to you.
Enthusiasm for life
Are you enthusiastic about life? Or are you just a couch potato? Women like a man who is adventurous or zesty about life. Activities such as travelling, camping, attending arts and crafts fairs, at least outgoing and engaging in some social activities. No woman likes a man who is a couch potato for an entire day. If you want to meet a fascinating and wonderful woman and develop a relationship, it is imperative for you to cultivate an interest in those events to display your characteristics.
An interesting man
Do you think you are an interesting rather than boring man? Whenever a woman starts a topic, are you willing to get involved in it yourself and express your opinions or at least show your interest in the conversation? It doesn’t matter what the topic will be, such as wine, music, writing or reading. Do you have a passion in any of them? It doesn’t mean a woman wants you to take her to an expensive event and only wants to share her interests and bring an interesting topic to replenish her life with you.
In brief, how to attract women is a really personal way of getting into a dating situation and the ball is always in the women’s court if they have an intention to get known each other. Cultivate yourself and be ready for your ideal woman, sooner or later you will be there.